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Jeff Reinke, MA Marriage Family Counseling

Jeff Reinke is the founder of The Marriage Resource and pastor of the Marriage & Family Ministry at North Coast Calvary Chapel located in Carlsbad, California.  Jeff obtained his BA from the University of Southern California and his MA from Trinity Graduate School of Theology and Azusa Pacific University.  His wife Robin is a licensed marriage and family counselor with a practice in north county San Diego.  Together they have been married 23  years, have two children and have many years of hands-on experience in helping strengthen and restore marriages in the Christian community. Contact Jeff at:


Robin Reinke, MS, LMFT

Robin M. Reinke is a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist. Originally from the northeast, she has over 25 years of experience in individual, marriage and family counseling.

Robin’s specialties include women’s issues, grief and loss, trauma, PTSD, couples, anxiety, adolescent issues and Christian counseling.  She is also trained in Restoration Therapy, EFT, and EMDR for trauma.  Robin has a deep faith in God which she naturally incorporates into her counseling practice.

760.560.6112 tele

Lance Ahl, MDiv, MSMFT

Registered MFT

Insurance:  No, but will provide a super-bill you can submit to your insurance company
Sliding Scale: Yes, upon review

Areas of Specialty: Couples, issues unique to those in the military, trauma, grief and identity formation for young adults and professionals.

As an ordained pastor, I bridge the areas of theology and psychology to help people discover and live a life of healing, wholeness, meaning and purpose.  In the therapy room, my approach is interactive and engaging as I seek to connect with my clients and help them to understand their interpersonal cycles that keep them stuck and discover ways to break through and move forward.  I help clients feel understood, equipping them with practical tools, and filled with hope for a better tomorrow.  Working together, I believe in finding restoration from the wounds of the past and helping clients find a healthy purpose-filled way of living.   My wife, Jennifer (an ordained pastor on staff at North Coast Calvary Chapel), and I enjoy living in Carlsbad, California.

The Safe Haven Counseling Center was started by Dr Sharon May and is a unique Christian Counseling Center comprised of a group of well-trained Christian therapists and interns in Carlsbad, California.  Although we serve the San Diego area, many of our clients come from Orange County, Los Angeles and all over the country, due to Dr Sharon May’s world-wide ministry attracting people from all over to come for hope, healing and training.

Our vision is to be a resource for you and your family through all the seasons of life.  We want to bring hope as well as provide practical ways to help you heal, grow and flourish so you can live a meaningful life and love well in your relationships.

Our aim is to provide cutting-edge counseling, innovative intensives and seminars to help you:

  • grow as a person, become all God has for you

  • get through life’s difficult, traumatic and painful struggles

  • grieve, adjust and transition through life’s ever changing seasons

  • experience God and His purpose for your life

  • discover a meaningful life vision, set goals, overcome what keeps you stuck

  • develop a balanced, God-centered, emotionally healthy way of life

  • restore and enrich your marriage

  • learn how to parent the best you can, strengthen and foster a safe haven family improve your personal and work relationships