Grace Wins!

3 ½ Day Men’s Intensive located at Failla Villa Estate located in beautiful Ramona, California. This intensive is specifically for men who are seeking sexual purity. The date for this event is November 29th, Thursday night to Sunday December 2nd.

The focus of the workshop is to teach men practical steps to acquire sexual purity and also to help them understand the root causes of their sexual acting out.  Our passion is that the workshop will support men to grow emotionally, spiritually and heal broken relationships. We believe it is only by the Grace of God that any of us can truly heal.

The Scriptures says in Hebrews 4: 16, Let us then approach God’s throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in our time of need.

The workshop is limited to 8 men only! This will include a mixture of lecture, group discussion, and individual reflection time and assignments. Participants break into smaller groups, with each group led by a trained facilitator.

Our GRACE WINS! 3 Day Intensive Workshops one of the most effective and affordable hands on workshops in the country. The topics that will be addressed are:

  • Addiction-Knowledge of the truth behind the neurochemistry of addiction, from both a biological and biblical Perspective.
  • Shame- Understanding of the role shame plays in compulsive destructive behavior.
  • Trauma-Realization of how childhood trauma and woundedness perpetuates destructive thinking and emotions.
  • Resources- Providing ongoing tools and resources to help put off the old destructive habits and put on new truths and new actions that will give one the life of freedom that is so desperately desired. The Restoration Therapy Model will be incorporated. (Dr. Terry Hargrave)
  • Grace- Recognition of the significance of God’s continued and persistent grace in the lives of the addicted, which provides a foundational tool for restoration and healing

Who should go to GRACE WINS!

The 3 ½ Day Mens’ Intensive are for men struggling with sexual behaviors that have a difficult time stopping. These men may or may not see themselves as sexual “addicts”, which at times is misunderstood. Men at the workshops may be dealing with a wide variety of sexual behaviors- ranging from fantasy, pornography, affairs, and sexual encounters. However, the underlying spiritual and emotional issues and recovery process is universal.

Who are the Facilitators?

Jeff and Robin have been married for 29 years and have experience healing and restoration in their marriage from the pain of sexual betrayal. As a result, they have helped many husbands and wives who have experienced the severe pain in the violation of trust. Jeff and Robin, are certified counselors in the Restoration Therapy model. For the past 3 years they have helped many couples heal through The Hideaway Experience, a 4 day and 4 couple intensive for troubled marriages.

Jeff is the founder of The Marriage Resource and pastor of the Marriage & Family Ministry at North Coast Calvary Chapel located in Carlsbad, California. Jeff obtained his BA from the University of Southern California and his MA in Education from Azusa Pacific and MA in Marriage & Family Counseling at Trinity Graduate School of Psychology. Robin Reinke who will be sharing from a women’s perspective, is a Licensed Marriage and Family therapist. She has over 28 years of experience in individual, marriage and family counseling and is trained in Restoration Therapy, EFT, and EMDR for trauma.


FAILLA VILLA ESTATE is tucked away on four peaceful acres just 45 minutes from San Diego, It is a place that feels like a home away from home. This intimate property is the perfect place to set aside the stress of the outside world and focus on your recovery. The GRACE WINS! INTENSIVE includes all the comforts of home with a few extra-special touches to make your stay an extraordinary one. The property includes a dining room with a fireplace, the perfect place to reconnect over our home cooked meals.

DATE:               November 29th to December 2nd Sunday (See full schedule)

PRICE:             $1,650.00

LOCATION:     Failla Villa Estate  25367 Rancho Barona Road., Ramona, CA 92065

SCHEDULE: Check-in begins on Thursday at 4:00pm. Dinner is served at 6:30 pm to begin our programming. The ending date is Sunday at 4:00 pm after all programming has completed.

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Breaking the Code of Silence
Navigating the Church through Sexual Betrayal and Abuse

October 13, 2018

Keynote: Johanna Tropiano

Panel Dialogue Led by Wendy Hinman

Robin Reinke, LMFT, Jeff Reinke (Marriage & Family Pastor and Founder of The Marriage Resource), Jaime Johnson (Sex Trafficking Survivor and Advocate), Tomika Tatum (Sexual Assault Survivor and Activist), Dawn Trevitt (Sexual Abuse Survivor)

Whether you’re an individual in search of healing, a pastor looking for simple ways to care for your church, a mental health professional who is exploring different resources or just someone who wants to know how they can help others…PROPEL 2018 is for you.

Johanna Tropiano has spent the last ten years working with International Justice Mission and other organizations on justice related human rights issues, such as human trafficking, violence towards women and children, and police brutality. She is a survivor of child sexual assault and domestic violence. As a result, Johanna is a passionate advocate for those who have no voice. Her work has been published in multiple media outlets, including The Huffington Post, Darling Magazine, The Girl Who Knows, The Yellow Conference Holl and Lane, and others. She is currently writing her first book.


  • Healing from Sexual Abuse & Betrayal – Johanna Tropiano
  • The Myths & Universals of Sexual Trauma – Jennifer & Lance Ahl
  • Navigating the (church) Family through a Highly Sexualized Culture:
    (The Pandemic of Pornography) – Robin and Jeff Reinke
  • The Awareness & Prevention of Sex Trafficking in San Diego – Jaime Johnson
  • Signs of Sexual Abuse – Dawn Trevitt

MC – Wendy Hinman

Speaker Johanna Tropiano

Panel Participants
Johanna Tropiano
Robin Reinke
Jeff Reinke
Jaime Johnson
Tomika Tatum


8:00 AM Doors Open
8:15 AM Wendy Welcome
8:45 AM Speakers
9:40 AM Break
9:45 AM Panel Discussion – Wendy MC
10:30 AM Break
10:30 AM Workshops I (50min)
11:20 AM Workshops II (50min)
12:30 PM Bringing It Home – Next Steps

The Whole Marriage Class

This once-a-month class is designed to help support marriages by integrating the relational wisdom found in Scripture with modern research on love and attachment in marriage.  The goal is to enable couples to  think through the values and priorities that form the foundation of both life and marriage.

The Whole Marriage Class is held every third Sunday at North Coast Calvary Chapel. Check their website at www.northcoastcalvary for the most accurate dates, times and location.

TMR Facilitator Training

We are so excited that you will be attending Level One of our  Facilitator Training on August 10th and 11th. We look forward to the expansion of our TMR Workshops as more facilitators are trained to lead!

Below are a few details related to the training for your information:

TMR Facilitator I Training
@ North Coast Calvary Chapel
1330 Poinsettia Ln
Carlsbad, CA 92011

Cost: $50 per person

August 10 –  6:30 – 8:30 pm (Dessert Provided)

August 11 –  8:30-3:00 pm (Lunch Provided)

Leadership Workbook Provided

*Levels One and Two of the training course is mandatory to receive your TMR Facilitator Certificate.Those who have completed the necessary requirements and attended all training Modules will receive their Certificate. 

Click here to register:

Facilitator Training Registration